My First Father’s Day Without You

I thank you dad, how you always sacrificed for others,
For your wife, your children, your grandkids and brothers.
You left us a great example, that all of us should follow,
The grief of your passing has left us feeling so hollow.

I thank you dad, for knowing so much about many things,
I would call so often, and many problems to you I’d bring.
Without fail you had an answer, for you were always so wise,
And your deeds matched your words; your life surely testified.

I thank you dad, that you took such care of sis (your daughter) so well,
The love you gave when she was sick, a thousand lives could never tell.
And as for being a husband, your love for mom was very special indeed,
She is in such deep and intense pain without you; for her our hearts bleed.

I thank you dad, for being the kind of man I am striving to be,
I saw Christ in you; I saw your love; in fact, everyone could see.
You walked with Christ, trusting in Him, and putting others first,
Even when tired, even when you were hungry, feeling your worst.

You loved your grandkids with so much kindness, fun, and always with joy,
You gave them so many memories, far more precious than the greatest toy.
They will never forget you, and all that you meant to them over the years,
And neither will we, for you so greatly impacted us; so, we do shed some tears.

Thank you, my Heavenly Father, for giving me such an amazing earthly dad,
I know he is with You now, where he can no longer be sick, or scared, or sad.
I know my dad wasn’t perfect, but I saw how You were sanctifying him,
His light was shining, even to the end of his days, never growing dim.

Thank you Heavenly Father, for by Your Only Son my dad’s sins were bore,
And therefore I know I shall see him again, for he is with You forevermore!!


In Christ, Eternal Life

In Christ, eternal life; Trust in Him now,
Such life He gives! Yes all the earth should bow.
We bow to Him who loves us perfectly,
In adoration down on bended knee!

He went to that old rugged cross, and died,
And showed great love to us, arms open wide.
Alone He stands, victorious, He won,
Jesus! None else can do what He has done!

Have you believed in Him? Do not delay,
He is returning soon, glorious day!
Our time is short, find Him; He took the loss,
So you could gain; But how? Look to the cross!

He died the death, went to the grave, Prison!
But He escaped the tomb, third day; Risen!

Our Immutable God

Immutable- our LORD and King, Rejoice!
Were His patience like ours…. we would perish.
But God is not like us, so raise your voice,
He does not change; it is Christ we cherish.

Rejoice! From day to day, God stays the same,
His love does not dry up; our love runs cold.
So praise Christ now, and evermore, Great Name,
But how much praise? Tenfold? Do not withhold!

Our kind and loving God- dependable,
His loving arms won’t let us turn away.
His Word is sure to us ‘unloveables’,
How comforting, the promise made- will stay!

So worship Him, the Christ- unchanging One,
No other gods, none are like Him, nope- None!

My First Blogger Recognition Award




After blogging for about a year and a half now, and wondering if I am making any kind of impact for God’s Kingdom, God brought some much needed encouragement to me through another believer. About a week ago, I was nominated by Christina Savage (ChrisiEvie), who blogs at For Your Creative Soul. Her blog was started with the goal to “help encourage Christian Artists to stay committed to Christ in their artistic ministry.” I would encourage you to take a good look at her website, and be enriched by content centered on Jesus Christ. I am honored to be recognized by such a blogger. Thank you Christina!!


  • Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.

  • Write a post to show your award.

  • Give a brief story of how your blog started blogging.

  • Give two pieces of advice to new bloggers.

  • Select 15 other bloggers you want to give this award to. Comment on each blog and let them know you have nominated them and provide the link to the post you created.

  • You can use the image above to post on your blog.

About My Blog

I started my blog back in May 2016, and originally I figured I’d be writing mainly poetry centered on the Person and work of Jesus Christ. I have been writing poetry for many years, but I have never blogged any of it until recently. I find poetry to be beautiful to read, and joyful (although sometimes agonizing) to write. And while poetry is where I have spilled quite a bit of ink, the blog has morphed into so much more for me. Lately I seem to write just as much prose as I do poetry.

Also, after I started blogging for a couple months, I realized that I needed to share about a painful experience from my past. And that experience was losing my baby girl, Ariana, to still birth. I didn’t realize when I started blogging just how much time I would spend writing about Ariana, and also trying to relate to others who have been through similar tragedies. After having been through the pain of losing a baby girl, my goal is to bring comfort and hope to others.

My ultimate desire in everything I write is to point people to the ultimate hope in the gospel of Jesus Christ. And any fruit that comes from my writing is all the Lord’s doing. If any of my articles have brought comfort to grieving parents, have caused anyone to look more intently to Jesus Christ, or to see current events with a Biblical worldview, then all praise and glory to God! He is the one who gives gifts to His people. Therefore, He is the only One deserving of praise for any benefit we are to others.

Advice for New Bloggers

If you are a new blogger, I have 2 pieces of advice for you.

1) Do not be in a hurry to click “Publish” after you write a blog.

Revise. Revise. And did I mention………………Revise! When you first start blogging, you get kind of excited about publishing your first article. Well, not kind of, you get really excited. But remember, your blog is like your baby! Ok, not quite, but in a weird metaphorical kind of way. Just go with that for now. The point is this: Make every article the best you can make it. Read it. Re-read it. And try to see where you can rephrase things to make it flow better. Or if something sounds too harsh when you re-read it, then change it to sound more loving. Don’t go crazy or anything. Just make it as good as you can without driving yourself crazy. And don’t try to over-polish it either. You want that “edge” to your writing. You want the emotion. You want the rawness. Use simple words when revising. Say things in the easiest way you can to get your point across.

2) Write to glorify Jesus Christ.

You don’t need to impress people. So don’t be afraid to poke fun at yourself. Your goal in writing should be to glorify God. And when you are writing to glorify God, you don’t worry about sharing your struggles and weaknesses. Remember, God’s strength is best seen in our weakness. So don’t write to impress anyone. Write to bring attention to the King of kings, Jesus Christ. And when you do that, you ultimately will do good to others. Because the best thing you can do for others when you write is to make much of Jesus! So as you write, always be thinking about how you can bring Christ to bear on whatever topic it is. Trust me, if you are writing and you can’t think about how to bring Christ into it, then please rethink why you are even blogging to begin with. Before you hit that “Publish” tab, make sure you have honored Jesus in your words.

My Nominees

This award does require me to nominate 15 other bloggers. I have provided the links below. They were all chosen due to the fact that they make much of Jesus Christ in their writing. Please take the time to visit their sites. I highly recommend all of them!

I wish you all the best as you seek to glorify Christ in your writing. Please feel free to contact me anytime so that we can be a source of encouragement to one another.

God bless you,    Jamie


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Save the Baby, But Please Throw the Idiom Out With the Bathwater!



It is a ruthlessly annoying expression.  In fact, it is downright disturbing.  It conjures up horrifying images of sopping wet little babies being tossed into the air, and landing on hard, unforgiving surfaces.  If such an accident ever occurred (heaven forbid!), it would make even the most seasoned 911 dispatcher struggle to get through the call.  If such an accident ever really happened, we would all hold our breath and wonder if there were any fatalities. We would never be able to get it out of our mind, and for good reason.  It would be absolutely horrific.  The very thought, or mention, of something like this happening ought to make us shudder. We would never trivialize it.  Perish the thought! And we certainly would never use it as a common expression.  Worse yet is the fact that, when the expression is uttered, get this……… is always done nonchalantly.  No one seems to second guess whether or not it is even appropriate to say it.  So what gives?

Evangelicals, The Guilty Party?

I would love to be able to say that this phrase has little to no reputation among Christians. I’d love to tell you that it is completely secular, and is mostly used by the liberal media.  I would love to say all of that.  But, of course, I would be wrong. “Don’t Throw the Baby Out With the Bathwater” just so happens to be one of the most popular phrases among evangelicals.  At least, it sure seems that way.  You can hardly listen to a theological debate, or read the comments on a controversial Facebook post, without seeing someone refer to this expression.  It has gained steam, particularly in reformed circles, over the last several years. To be honest, I am uncertain about whether I have ever said it myself.  If I did, and you were the recipient, please allow me to take the rest of my life to repay you for the pain and suffering I have caused.  Just let me know which day of the week you’d like to have your car waxed, and your house cleaned.  It is the least I could do for being so carelessly insensitive. And if you have little babies, one day I will find a way to pay for their college education.

The Meaning?

According to this article from WiseGeek, “Throwing the baby out with the bath water” is an expression that implies that an entire idea, concept, practice or project doesn’t need to be rejected or discontinued if part of it is good. The baby, in this sense, represents the good part that can be preserved. The bath water, on the other hand, usually is dirty after the baby is washed and needs to be discarded, just like the parts of the concept that are bad or useless.”

The origin of the expression is highly debated, so I am not going to spill any ink on figuring out where it originated.  But most believe it traces back to a German origin in the 1500’s.  According to Wikipedia, Martin Luther was apparently a fan of the expression. (‘Baptismal Regeneration’ jokers need not apply.)  But I digress.

It really doesn’t matter to me how it began, when it began, or who is ultimately responsible for its origin.  I’m not interested in the origin of the expression; I’m interested in its demise.

How It All Happens

So how exactly does this unhelpful phrase enter into a conversation with evangelicals? Well, it goes something like this…….  An individual believes that someone went too far when they corrected a false teaching.  In other words, when they corrected one piece of bad theology, they got rid of some good theology as well!  In their zealousness, they may have meant well, but meaning well and doing well are two very different things.

Let me give an example here.  Let us suppose than an ‘evangelical’ said that God never, ever blesses people with wealth, and that it is a gross sin to be rich.  That we need to question our salvation if we make good money.  Ouch.  Not good.  In fact, it sounds like this person was so afraid of being associated with the “health and wealth” gospel, that he went completely in the opposite direction.  It happens.  We need to be aware of it when it does.  The prosperity preachers teach that having riches always indicates that God’s blessing is on you.  But this next individual, in his desire to correct, states that the possession of riches indicates that God’s curse is always on you.  Both are false.  Both are destructive.  I would even venture to say that the over correction itself is heresy.

Mr. Idiom User to the Rescue

Someone needs to do something about this doctrinal error.  Right?  I mean, we don’t want to people to think they’re going to hell just because they have a good job and are wealthy, right?  “Somebody, anybody, please say something!  Let’s balance this thing out and bring some clarity!”  And then…… know it’s coming.  The warning signs start to sound.  It is as obvious as the sound of a foghorn blasting, warning ships of coming dangers. He starts to say things like, “Well, Benny Hinn is wrong to believe that he himself has the power to heal, but it is wrong to say that God never heals anyone today.”  He stresses the word ‘never’ for a reason.  He is leading into it, just waiting to get it out……….just waiting for the right moment.

And I, well, I am ready to cringe.  Because in just a short moment some well-meaning Christian is going to blurt it out.  He is going to say the words that make me (and others I’m sure) want to have someone dig their nails down a chalkboard, just so we don’t have to hear that infamous expression.   And here he comes, Mr. I’m Going to Bring Balance to Everyone’s Theology.  He is all too happy to step right on up to the discussion platform, and lend his two cents worth.  And then, without much thought or hesitation, he says it.  He’s probably said it before, and he’s most likely heard it from others many times as well.  He says, “Hey, I know that prosperity theology is false, and that Kenneth Copeland is a heretic, but let’s not…..” AAARRGGHHH!!!! “NO, NO, NO, Please…. NO, NO, Anything but THAT!!  I BEG YOU!!” is what I am thinking to myself, although I say absolutely nothing.  And he continues uninterrupted……..  “throw. the. baby. out. with. the. bathwater.” (gulp, headbang, deep breath) Honestly, there should be a law against it.  Brothers and sisters, how did we ever…………?  I can’t even……..

We Have Plenty of Other Choices

“Don’t Throw Away the Champagne with the Cork.”  It’s a very common and old expression.  But it has a nice ring to it, doesn’t it?  I can’t imagine anyone having nightmares because of this one!  I mean, even if the champagne did accidentally get tossed, well……….ya know……….it’s champagne!  It’s not the end of the world. You can buy another bottle.  No one is annoyed or traumatized.  And best of all, there are no mental images of babies flying through the air waiting to crash onto a hardwood floor. There are others you can choose as well.  “Don’t let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch.” “Don’t give up on a great team because of a few bad players.” There’s no shortage.  You have plenty to pick from.  They’re a lot less violent too.

I often hear Christians get upset at people when they refer to a baby as “it”, instead of he or she.  And I agree with them.  We should make it a point to stress that a baby is a person with an assigned gender.  But here’s the thing. When we use that horrible idiom, we are likening the baby to a good piece of theology, right?  Well, isn’t referring to a baby as a piece of theology the same thing as calling them an “it”?  Draw it out to its logical conclusion, and that is where you end up.


A baby is a person created in the image of God; a person to be loved and cared for. A person to be well spoken of, even idiomatically.  He or she is not some good piece of theology that could be dangerously tossed out with some filthy bathwater.  I know it is just an expression, and no one means anything harmful by it.  I am not saying it is a sin to use it. But there is value in the words that we choose, and the manner in which we use them. The expression conjures up all sorts of bad things. It is not good for the imagination.  We should speak better of these precious little ones.

So, of course, save the baby.  But please throw that repulsive idiom out with the bathwater! In fact, as long as the idiom gets tossed, you can even save the bathwater if you want. Given the choice between the two, I’d rather bathe in that filthy gunk than have to hear that expression one more time!  Yes, I know that is gross, but I am trying to make a point. (-:

And if y’all actually listen to me and boycott this expression, and it finally sees its own demise, I plan on having a celebration.  And you’re all invited!

Someone will have to bring the champagne though.  Somehow my last bottle got tossed with the cork.


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